Hi Mrs….Keef,
Welcome to TDKland. We’re the furriest forum around.
The two things that most cats don’t like is sticky paws and citrus. So get some double-sided tape and put that on hard surfaces like wires and curtains. Use the peels from Oranges, Lemons and/or Lime in small, tip proof containers around the house.
If you don’t already have a cat tree, get one for her. This will give her an outlet for her scratching behavior.
She wakes you up in the early morning because you get up. To her has become a game. Since your husband is not happy the best solution for a restful night’s sleep is to shut your cat out of your room at night. For the first few nights you may have a sad kitty meowing and clawing at the door, but eventually she should stop, as long as you ignore her behavior and don’t get up and let her in to your room in the middle of the night.
Good Luck
PG
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