Hi Charlotte! Congrats on your new kitten! I’m going to post some links that will answer your questions for you, but I would offer her the gruel at each meal, if she doesn’t eat it all you can save it and refrigerate it, then warm it for the next meal. After she is full, and she plays for a while, you can offer her a bottle if you wish. She is old enough now to offer her a litter box too. One that is low to the ground that she can easily get in and out of. Put plain clay, unscented, NONCLUMPING litter in there for now as kittens tend to think of it as food and the clumping kind can cause a blockage. Take her paw after she has eaten when you would normally pee and poop her, and dig in the litter with it. If you have a poop of hers, put it in there. They automatically take to it and seem to know what to do. Keep us posted!!
http://www.safehavenforcats.com/newborn.htm
http://messybeast.com/handrear.htm
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