Hi, everyone.
Since signing up, I’ve managed to find answers to any question I might have through searches, and similar past posts. For the past week I’ve had no need for advice, as my kitten and I fell into a comfortable rhythm.
But now, we’ve lost that stride. So, I’m asking: What is the earliest possible time for weaning?
At 18 days, my kitten has a new habit of refusing the “bottle” (a syringe – I know it’s not the best option for hand-rearing, but she never took to a bottle, and was always comfortable with the syringe–she sucks from it herself, so there’s no danger of the plunger sticking, and I keep her from sucking too fast}. She will now knead FURIOUSLY, to the point where her swinging arms are shooing the syringe away, presses her lips shut and refuses to suck. The kneading isn’t entirely out of character–I used to deal with this by wrapping her up, and while it bothered her, once she was sucking on her food, she went still and content, gently kneading within the wrap. Now, she doesn’t settle and the wrap only frustrates her further.
Whenever I do manage to get the syringe into her mouth she won’t suck as she normally does, and if I try to prompt her with the plunger she lets the formula spill back out her mouth. Then she will begin searching the blanket for food, still meowing.
This doesn’t happen all the time–so far she’s done it in a middle of the night meal (I assumed her fussy attitude was because she wasn’t hungry; She seems to prefer stretching 6-7 hours without a meal overnight, sleeping through my prodding to wake her at the 4-5 hour mark which is our schedule during daylight hours). After getting about 3 ml in her, I gave up, letting her sleep and she happily finished the meal when morning came (without the fuss). I also switched out the old syringe here for one that is newer, with a smoother glide–easier for her to suck. (She gets frustrated when she has to put too much effort into suckling the food out).
Then it happened again several feedings later at her last meal before bed at 10PM when she had woken voluntarily for a feeding. The only reasoning I can think for this one is that she had to eliminate. I stopped the meal to see if that’s what she wanted, stimulating her to go, and afterwards we were able to continue the feeding with less of a fight/fuss.
Now it just happened again at another middle of the night feeding, however she did seem inclined to eat, just not from the syringe. I was using the newer, smoother syringe for easy suckling, I had stimulated her, I tried with the wrap and without. I would say it is because it is another middle-of-the-night feeding, except she did seem inclined to eat…
She’s been incredibly advanced with most things, purring fully at 3 days old, sitting up and standing before a week was up and full-on walking soon after. Same with responding to sounds, grooming, etc… Is it possible that she’s ready to begin weaning at 19 Days? This seems too early for me, but I don’t know what else could be making her so resistant to feedings otherwise.
Sorry for the length, and thanks in advance for any insight/tips/advice