welcome from my side! sometimes, it’s a setback or bunch of setbacks that make a former dream seem like a nightmare. but we learn from them. let’s home lucy comes back, and things get better for you! i admit, when i first was planning my move to ny, i had a series of setbacks that *nearly* made me wonder if i was doing the right thing or not. i really had to chat to myself and have a deep conversation with myself in order to set things right. i lost alot of things that devastated me – including the first place i was living in, my cats, and 95 percent of my belongings from 4 generations. now, im slowly getting back on my feet too, and things get better in time. you have to work to make the dream continue to be real. that’s one thing we often lose sight of…we reach our dream and we think it takes care of itself from there. and setbacks add to the dilemma. but they are all part of the process of making the dream reality, as reality has to have its hard times with the good, otherwise it would stay a dream.