Kitten Won’t Let Me Sleep – HELP!

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  • #52117
    petalmason
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    I’ve only had my 6-week old kitty for 3 days. But I want to get on top of this before it gets worse! When I’m trying to sleep at night, she climbs all over my head and my face, and paws/scratches my face cuz she is trying to get me to play. I don’t want to play – I WANT TO SLEEP! I hold her mouth and paws shut together and sternly say to stop, then move her to the foot of the bed or to the floor, but she just climbs right back up. I live in a bachelor apartment so I can’t put her in another room. What can I do to get her to sleep in her own bed or at the foot of the bed, and play with toys if she’s awake at night instead of my face?

    Should I get a small cage and put her in it at night for now, just letting her out during the day? I could also get a barrier to the kitchen and keep her in the kitchen, but then she’ll probably cry all night?

    ANY SUGGESTIONS WILL DO! Thank you!!!

    #741101
    Jeankit
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    Create a little bed/nest for her & line it with a worn garment/t-shirt of yours as a comforting familiar scent. Offer her a few cuddle toys to snuggle with too. Play/interact with her before your bed time as to spend some of her playtime energy plus feed her near your bedtime which usually zonks them out too.

    #741102
    petalmason
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    Jeankit,

    Thank you for your reply. I have tried that! I have 2 different little beds set up for her, but when I put her in them, she doesn’t stay. She just crawls back up to my head… I will keep trying. She just found a spot she likes on the windowsill behind the curtain, I keep finding her there, so maybe I will put one of her beds there.

    Is a nighttime cage / barrier to the kitchen a good idea for now anyways?

    #741103
    Jeankit
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    Um…I don’t do cages…hopeful someone else will chime in on your thread.

    What about the bathroom…tuck her in there w/litter/food for the nite.

    (It’s a stage & she will grow out of it sooner than you think!)

    #741104
    petalmason
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    I am buying her a scratch post today… I will try one more night and see if she still does this. Then I guess I will have to lock her in the bathroom 🙁 I feel terrible doing that, don’t want to be the mean momma, but I need sleep!

    If anyone else has suggestions that would be great. Thanks!!!!!!

    #741105
    EmmyandBenson
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    ok this may sound crazy but this worked with my cat, when she was a kitten i would gently hiss at her when she was behaving badly, two years later that is the only way to get her to stop a bad behavior, it is a natural and gentle way that the kitten/cat understands, i am know working on the with my new kitten. hope this helps good luck with the new baby.

    #741106
    Anonymous
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    3 days is a very short time for a kitten to adjust to a new environment. I understand the need for sleep (believe me, I understand), but please be patient with the little one.

    #741107
    Jeankit
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    Great comment EA…yup hissing does work! Agree w/Kilroy as 3 days is not enough time to adjust…newbie kitties need time to develope good habits!

    #741108
    petalmason
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    Interesting! I will try the hissing thing. I just can’t believe how quickly she adjusted. When I brought her home she was soooo quiet and scared and polite. 2 days later she’s crazy! As soon as I come home she runs up to me and starts scratching and biting at my pant leg. It just worries me that she’s going to grow up to me a crazy mean kitty! Want to start training her properly straight away, but have never had a cat so this is all new to me. Cats don’t listen the same way dogs do.

    #741109
    Jeankit
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    She is just a kitten at a “human toddler”stage…will grow out of it. Wants your attention…interact with her in a playful manner w/feather wand, rolled up paper balls etc…If you need a calming aid try Feilway plug-ins.

    #741110
    Anonymous
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    You really can’t “train” a cat the way you can a dog. You can encourage good behaviors (and some research suggests that cats only respond to positive reinforcement, not negative punishments, but who knows).

    Never, ever use your hands or feet as toys; once a cat thinks you’re a toy you’re doomed (ask me how I know; I didn’t do it but my husband did and I’m paying for it).

    Repeatedly putting the kitten off the bed when it bites may eventually get the message across.

    #741111
    petalmason
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    So what should I do when she starts clawing and biting at my ankles/pants or my hands and arms? If I pick her up and move her she usually comes running back.

    #741112
    Anonymous
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    That’s when it’s a good idea to hiss, and/or scruff her gently (hold her by the back of the neck where a mama cat would pick her up and hold her still – it’s a mama kitty way of saying “knock it off!”) Your kitten is probably young enough to respond to this quickly.

    #741113
    glitzyangel
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    To be fair, and your kitten may be a little young to try this. But when we first got Minnie (at 7 weeks and 5 days old) we had her in our bedroom and she was a NIGHTMARE.

    Once we had got her used to our house we now leave her in the kitchen, she seems very happy in there we always come down to her toys sprawled all over the kitchen and her blanket wrapped up around her fluffy toys. I don’t know if 5 weeks is too young to leave her on her own, but I have found this really good. Shes safe, and warm in there and she has her own space which she knows is hers. we give her plenty of fuss before we shut her in for the night but she knows its time for bed when we do and she usually goes to her food or to her bed and curls up. Kittens love to play, and from my understanding of cats they will always keep you up even when they are older if you don’t stop them whilst they are young!

    #741114
    petalmason
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    Amy Jane,

    So you are saying to block her off to her own room? I have read that on other sites too. It is hard because I live in a bachelor apartment so there are no doors separating the kitchen from the main room/bedroom. I could keep her in the bathroom at night but that just seems cruel. I am thinking of getting a barrier to the kitchen (which is where her food and litter box is), and putting her in there at nights, at least for a while. Putting a bed in there for her that she can get used to. And then letting her roam around the whole apartment only when I’m home with her and during the days when I am not home.

    Does this seem like a good idea?

    Thanks for the tips everybody!

    #741115
    glitzyangel
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    hmm. a barrier would have to be something she couldn’t climb – because she will LOVE to climb it otherwise haha. I found in my experience (i lived with my mom and my cat at home for 16 years, and now with my kitten) that giving them their own room is the best way. Minnie had free run of downstairs (kitchen and front room)when we are home or if i am popping out and to be fair our kitchen is large. As long as you know where you have her is safe and she can’t do much damage I think you are fine to leave her in one room. It also means she has a safe place. Somewhere she can hide in a thunderstorm or something, or if there are children. My neices came round to play the other day and minnie bolted into the kitchen because that’s where she knows she loves. Does she have like a piece of your clothing that she is fond of? We were quite lucky when we got Minnie, the people we bought her from had nitted her a blanket so we put that on her new bed and she knew that was her place because it smelt of her. So anytime we take her out her comfort zone (For example to the vets) we pop it in the bottom of the carrier so she feels happier. if you have a jumper or a cardigen or something that smells like you and her you could always pop that in her bed and she will start to associate her bed with you too. 🙂

    Others here may have a better/different insight but from my experience giving them their own space is a good thing. my only concern is how young yours is.

    #741116
    glitzyangel
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    another thing we did was when we did have her in the bedroom and she was climbing on the bed we picked her up. said “no” very clearly and put her on her bed (with her blanket). she very quickly realised where she was meant to sleep.

    #741117
    petalmason
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    I agree about keeping her in her own room. Only thing is I cannot do that in my apartment. My apartment is one giant space (it is a bachelor apartment). So my only option would be to barricade her in the kitchen at nights until she gets used to sleeping there and not in my bed.

    #741118
    glitzyangel
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    may be a good option as long as she couldn’t climb over the barricade 🙂

    #741119
    KittenLover16
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    I had a kitten that did that very same thing. I just covered my head and ignored him. Probably not the best solution… but he eventually gave up and played with something he found amusing. Of course he did grow out of it after a little while.

    The hissing trick works. I’ve used it on my older cat when ge sprays anywhere near the house. He’s learned quickly that it wasn’t ok. As for the beds for your kitten… she might not sleep in them because 1.She’s not tired, and 2.It probably doesn’t smell familiar. With my kitten, I made a makeshift bed out of a box and rags. I slept with the rags to get my scent on them so the bed smelled like me. He loved it and used it whenever he was tired and needed a good place to rest. It’s also a good idea to put the bed in a high place. Somewhere the cat likes to perch would be a good spot. Cats (and especially kittens) love to climb and be above everything.

    If she still wants to play, put some large pom-poms on the floor. It might be enough to entertain her. It was enough for my litle rascal.

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