Wednesday – 22-10-2-14 – Something's Cookin' In the Café as Cookie Month!

I hope karma does find him Jean … And soon!

🙂 lol yes KJ drinks tend to have a strength when drunk they normally wouldn’t have when sober.. I used to play camogie (women’s hurling a GAA sport) as a teenager so I’m used to pushing my weight around 🙂 ….

I’ve had such a strange week so far.. Was at my friends house for a girly night and Mr B’s sister was there too.. I’d decided long ago I wanted to make no contact with her after her last outburst that was again directed to me 🙁 and I was quite happy to smile and nod while in her company.. Well as I slept in my friends spare bedroom at 3am Mr B’s sister came into the room woke me up and proceeded to tell me she “didn’t want to Hate me anymore!” And that she has been telling everyone that would listen to her for the last two years that I’ve been bullying her.. Because she’s jealous and thinks her dad ( Mr B senior) loves me more than her and I’ve been picking on her for two years and telling Mr B she’s been doing Badly in college and I cut her out of family photos when I’ve been asked to take family photos without me being in them! Myself ..Her level of delusion has gotten to such an extreme level I’m actually scared we all believe she needs to be hospitalised now! So whatever she says or however much she says she wants us to be friends again I’m NEVER gonna be friends with her she’s a dangerous person and I have to stay completely away from her.. She has been making up complete lies about me and I hope people aren’t listening to her ..

Phew rant over.. Sorry for off loading guys just can’t believe I have a person in my life that’s prepared to completely destroy my reputation 🙁 Mr B is very upset about the whole thing .. But I’ve asked him to stay out of it after all he his her brother.. … I’ve tried to explain it’s all in her head but she’ll probably accuse me of being mean if I use the words mentally unstable and delusional 🙁 but she clearly is and it’s bloody scary for me cause it’s all directed at me and only me!

Oh advice always appreciated KJ! It’s nice to know someone knows what I’m going through.. But not nice you have to go through it too … At least I know how extreme her behaviour is getting and I will avoid like the plague! Closest friends know exactly what’s happening thank god!

Scary stuff with that shooting ! Hope it is all over now..

{{{Buttons}}} strength and safety with the disturbed sister, and bravo for standing up for others when it was sorely lacking from others.

AV, so will the Queen reside under a tree where she can see others from her favorite spot on the porch or perhaps in a beautiful urn of her own?

’til tomorrow, JK!

… Deb, we really can’t bury animals here in the City limits – not only is my yard very tiny, but dogs and racoons will dig them up. Cremation was definitely the way to go. The vet offered that I could come back for her ashes if I wanted, but choose not to. I’ve been downloading pictures of her all day, and am making Dau a memorial collage ….. I think she will really like it ….. Cuddles has been with us since Jill was 5 …. she’ll be 24 soon ….

AV that sounds like a lovely healing process … I hope the collage helps.. I was so torn when Buttons died.. I had always said I’d have him cremated .. But when it came time the nearest crematorium was a couple of hours away and only cremating on the following Thursday .. I wasn’t willing to let Buttons out of my arms even for one second so we knew we had to bury him with Lady Muck, Smelly Cat & Maneki on that little island in the middle of my parents river under the oak tree.. But as we all know they’re just places to visit they never truly leave our side.. Cuddles will always be with you.. I feel Buttons around me everyday ..

AV, I have Shaddo & Jiggs ashes in nice boxes with their nameplates. The vet made a paw print for each of them. The plan is to have my kitties ashes go in with mine when it’s my time.

Oh NO AV! I’m so sorry. You must have been posting same time I was this morning and I haven’t been back until now. Sweet Cuddles. What a wonderful life she had living with you and your family. Almost every tree has more than one or two kitties buried under it in my yard, on this farm. My granddog Jakie is buried out by the barn under the butternut tree, now known as the Jakie tree and my heart still yearns for him and his happy face. As well as all the kits I have lost and their unique and funny personalities.
KJ, that was such a kind thing to say today, I wish you were here I would give you the biggest hug. I know that we all don’t know each other but I genuinely care (yes, love) the people here and their kind hearts and spirits. Look at how Buttons went after that nasty human…Karma for sure and soon. You know Buttons, I wouldn’t be above putting a little *hex* on that cat figurine he has in his possession…just sayin’…….
Well, all went well today until about noon, and Dau called me and her hubby hurt his back working and ended up in the ER. She had to leave work and won’t be working tomorrow because he can’t hardly stand up and will need help going to the bathroom. I took Avery home to her this evening so she didn’t have to make another trip and leave hubby alone. Seriously, some weeks, UGH.
Also KJ, I was thinking of you today after hearing on the news of the Ottawa thing. They broke into programming, and I didn’t catch the later broadcast so I don’t really know what happened, but it was Canada and KJ lives there and hoping my TDK peep (peeps) is safe! AND I really like the Jewish saying about living until 120!