thank you so much everyone, I really hope the kitten we are longing for finds us. But if not that’s okay too. Lola is a handful enough but I often wonder if a play mate would calm her down, (or at least let me sleep past 9 am, that would be nice.) I don’t want a kitten from Joeys “friend” because for all I know he may “change his mind” again and decide he doesn’t want to give his kitten away and i’m not setting myself up to be let down again. Also he has like ten cats who are not nuetered or spayed and they just keep having kittens and it’s so irresponsible of him and can result in in-breeding. If we do get another kitty I want her to be from an experienced breeder, or shelter.
And I totally agree with the, “cats finding us” thing.
When I was 10 years old my mother and I lived in a town house and we had a cat living in our window well for two weeks. She was a beautiful long haired calico, and the sweetest cat in the world. I would feed her sardines and milk everyday. And then one day we were having new windows put in, she jumped right in our house and made herself comfortable. We weren’t allowed cats at that place, but our landlord was there and he insisted that we kept her. She had already been fixed and was declawed so there was no way we were going to leave her outside. I had her for 11 years before she passed away in january 2013. She definitely found us, and I’m so glad she did. After she passed away I thought there was no way I’d ever get another cat, until Lola stole my heart, of course.
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