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  • #378715
    Dee
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    I apologize for being doubtful, AJ. There is a vast difference in quality between your first few posts and your follow-up post. It was not just grammatical errors, but it was quite disjointed. It appeared to have been written by a child. I am guessing it is because you are very stressed. And when I read that your cat may have “mail nurture,” that kind of solidified my stance. I would think that a 19 year old animal owner (and vet student) would be familiar with the word “malnourishment.”

    If your last vet charged you thousands of dollars within a few weeks time with no clear diagnosis, and you feel he was scamming you, he needs to be reported. Start off with the Better Business Bureau.

    http://www.bbb.org/

    #378716
    augbaby89
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    Will do that. I was very stressed. I have been crying on and off for the last three days. I could not sleep because i had to keep waking up and pushing fluids with her. So when I got home tonight I realized I could sleep the whole night threw tonight. I cannot though because, well I am going to miss her lil’ body snuggled up next to mine. When I saw her tonight in the incubator I could not help to cry. She looks so small in that box. When I got there with her wrapped in a towel and they rushed her back I felt like they were taking my child away. So I was very upset. Everyone there is pulling for her. I wanna call and check up on her but I dont want to be that annoying pet owner. Screw it I am calling.

    #378717
    TheKnittingNinja
    Participant

    call as much as you want, it shows you care about her.

    I dont mean to be rude or anything but what is CSU, I am assuming it is a state university but for the life of me cant figure out which one.

    #378718
    jcat
    Participant

    AJ, go ahead and call. They will know what you’re going through. My heart goes out to you. Please let us know too. We truly do want your kitty to get well and come home with you. We all know what it is like to love kitties and to lose them. You will find great advice and support here. Please don’t judge us too harshly — as SM said, we have been burned in the past by people making up stories.

    That first vet was a disgrace. I don’t know if you can get any money back but if I were you, I would be reporting him to the professional veterinary body in your state — there must be one.

    {{{Hugs}}} and I’m glad you found this site, even under such terrible circumstances.

    #378719
    jcat
    Participant

    Also, something you might want to think about for the future when, God willing, your baby comes home — are your kitties allowed outdoors? I live in New Zealand, where there are no natural predators for kitties but I know many people on this site, who live in the States, keep their cats indoors only. If you’re living in the country, it could prevent future problems with predators and contaminated water sources.

    #378720
    augbaby89
    Participant

    Thanks guys. Well I just got off with Jenny one of the over night vet techs. Bella is too dehydrated for a direct vein line iv so they are temp. injecting her with fluids until her veins get bigger. I cannot remember what it i called but they started hot packing her with hot water bottles to rise her temperature. I hope she pulls threw. Jenny was very nice and talked about her in a very calm and caring tone. Also, Bella is a calico so her nose is usually bright pink, tonight it was almost clear. I miss my lil’ monster. I am glad she is there because I bought her a lot of toys and kitty condo’s but she has never played with them yet. My German Shepard Koojo misses her a lot though, he is 75 pounds at six months. I know koojo is usually spelled Cujo but I love to be unique. Same as Bella’s full name is Bellason’.

    #378721
    Buttercup
    Participant

    That’s neat about Koojo,your other kitties are beautiful in your avatar. More prayers for Bellason’.

    [[AJ]]

    Try to get some sleep hon.

    #378722
    Marnet
    Participant

    AJ, I sincerely apologize for my earlier remarks that were hurtful.

    I do hope your beloved kitty gets well and comes home to lots of good snuggling and love with you.

    #378723
    Moonshadow_NZ
    Moderator

    Sending lots of Healing Energy and TDK White Light for Bella’s recovery and {{hugs}} for AJ.

    #378724
    jcat
    Participant

    It sounds like she is in good hands. We are all pulling for her here, and BC’s right, try to get some sleep while you can. {{{Hugs}}}

    #378725
    Tigerlilly
    Participant

    AJ, just catching up on this update. I am so sad for you. Sounds like sweet little Bella is very sick. You did the right thing in taking her in. I hope and pray that they are able to help her. It sounds like they are giving her subcutaneous (under the skin) fluids, God willing this will help until the correct medication kicks in.

    I have had kitties in the hospital before. I would not hesitate to call as often as you need to. Usually staff at vet clinic love animals and understand pet owners very well.

    I will be praying for your Bella.

    #378726
    augbaby89
    Participant

    I am gonna call again in another hour. I just don’t like being away from her. She is my white light. Mylie is always in my heart but Bella is helping me get over the pain of watching her die… With Mylie I was helpless in her death. The owl grabbed her when I was only feet away. I could hear her crying for what felt like hours after wards. When that owl came back though he met his faith. Koojo caught him mid air before he tried to grab my Yorkie Oscar. So all I can say is Karma comes back ten times harder. I just feel like I am fighting for both of them now. I see so much of Mylie in Bella it is hard sometimes. I believe in reincarnation and I believe Mylie tries to come back every now and then threw Bella. So I just cannot loose either of them. I am now just trying to figure out how to pay the vet bills. I am thinking about starting a Bella Fund in Elizabeth where I live. At the local feed stores and Big R.

    #378727

    Hi, AJ. Welcome to TDK. I’m sorry it is under such stressful circumstances! It sounds like you are giving every chance to Bella as she deals with her health issues. I hope you will be able to visit Bella as well as check on her by telephone. It will probably do you both good to have some face to face contact while she is in the vet hospital. Please keep us posted on how she is doing. If they will allow it at the vet hospital, you might want to bring an article of clothing you’ve worn, but not yet washed for her to sleep near. It might reassure her to be able to smell a familiar smell. 🙂

    #378728
    feral
    Participant

    AJ…I’m sorry as well that little Bella is so sick. We all here have felt the pain you are now going thru. I lost a dear,sweet cat I loved as much as life itself back in 2007. I miss her so much that I swear I still see her sitting on my kitchen window sill waiting for me to feed her. In fact when I saw your avatar it made me start crying because she was a beautiful little tortie just like the one in your picture.

    I’m sending Prayers & White Light for your Bella to pull thru this & Peace for your heart.

    #378729
    augbaby89
    Participant

    As

    I will pray for you and may your kitty rest in peace. Hopefully she will visit you in another kitty form soon

    #378730
    MadcatwomanintheUK
    Participant

    AJ, I’m so pleased you came back to update us. I really hope you continue to post here, this *is* a good, kind, caring site with plenty of advice and support.

    This trauma comes way too soon after losing Mylie in such horrible circumstances – I’m praying hard Bella pulls through – sounds like she’s in the right place now anyway, and getting the care and treatment she needs.

    Lots of {{{hugs}}}

    #378731
    anncetera2
    Participant

    AJ, I’m so sorry to hear that Bella’s very sick, indeed. You’ve done the best that you can for her, in getting her to a veterinary college where 24 hr intensive care is available. Hopefully if they’re pushing warmed subcutaneous fluids, keeping her warm, and getting her on the meds she needs, it will help her get past this critically ill stage and into a more stable condition where she can begin the healing process.

    I’m sorry to hear of Mylie’s death. I understand you’re in the country; there is a very steep death rate for kittens once they become mobile and start following their mamas to learn about their habitat and hunting. I know it must have hurt you very much to see Mylie die, but I also know that the owl was simply doing what they’re supposed to do. It might have been a somewhat inexperienced owl; more mature owls usually steer clear of cats and kittens as prey, because felines are such fierce fighters.

    If Bella recovers, are you planning to have her become an indoor kitty? And do you always supervise your Yorkie outdoors, too? Such small pets as a Yorkie and a kitten less than 8 months old are often considered prey for larger birds of prey, coyotes, foxes, and other predators.

    My heart goes out to you. I hope and pray for Bella’s recovery. Don’t hesitate to call the vet’s office to talk with a vet tech or the vet a couple times per day. Bella’s very sick, and they understand your concern.

    #378732
    Leeny
    Participant

    Hi, AJ. I’m so sorry that you lost Mylie, and I hope that Bella recovers with all the help and love she’s being given.

    Have they found out for sure if she has giardia? Is that what they think caused the ulcers in her intestines?

    #378733
    Corkycats
    Participant

    Hi AJ, I think we all put a lot of trust in our vets! I know I do! Most of the time, I trust but verify! I think when people see a young woman they tend to think they can take advantage of you. My rule of thumb to finding a good vet is, ask animal lovers/breeders in your area to recommend someone. Having a sick animal is scary and stressful. I agree with some previous posts, that you have to keep calling to check progress. You know what they say, the squeaky wheel gets the grease! Good luck and all the best!

    #378734
    gini
    Participant

    Hi AJ, I really hope your kitten Bella starts to feel better soon. Don’t worry about calling. My cat (the white one in my avatar) Taco was in the hospital for more than a week and also had severe dehydration and was very sick. I called many times for updates and they were always glad to let me know what is going on. You should ask the vet office what their visiting hours are so you can see sweet Bella. Often when kitties can see their owners they feel a bit better and fight a little harder. I hope that things work out for the best; update us when you can.

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