Sleep and Attack!

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    Megan Boudreaux
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    So, it’s been a month now and my cat still attacks my kitten. Several times (if he’s biting her and not grooming her which he also does), she will squeak for him to stop. Often times he does. But every now and then it’s like her squeaks incense him to be even more aggressive, and he’ll go again at her a couple more times in small bursts until I come running and break them up. If he tries to stalk her again right after this I put him in the “cat room” with all supplies for a while until I feel he’s calmed down enough to ignore her. This usually works for the rest of the day.

    What confuses me is this isn’t the only behavior he displays around her. 90% of the time he ignores her, and for the past two weeks I’ve caught them napping together. They’re doing it as I type! And he’s going to lay by her, not the other way around. Also, she’s not constantly afraid of him (unless he’s chasing her of course, but she will sometimes chase back).

    They’re still not being left completely alone together. If we leave the house, the gate goes up.

    Is this normal and acceptable behavior? Does anybody have a clue what my cats are thinkin? Lol I’m stumped. If a big scary cat was attacking me until I cried, I’d be scared all the time! But she seems to recover. And his behavior hasn’t changed from day 1; only become more predictable.

    #835195
    Kittyzee
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    Megan, I have two cats that do the same thing. His sister is older, and he is younger, but right before feeding time, he chases her (not usually the other two cats I have) and holds her down making her squeal and holler. I think it could be the chase/catch/kill thing that cats do with prey except he isn’t going to kill her–she just sounds like he’s going to. She also chases him sometimes and plays with him too. Seriously, it aggravates the he&& out of me, but they seem to just take it in stride. He will chase the other two cats (both females also), one hisses and runs away and the other one just turns around and puts the smack down on him. He stops after she does that. I think he acts like the ‘younger brother’…you know, aggravating his sisters until they scream and he has achieved his goal, LOL! It stumps me too, and is predictable, I just have to remember that I am lucky that they all get along, eat together, and I am lucky that I have a peaceful household.

    #835235
    Megan Boudreaux
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    Okay, phew! I was starting to think this was unusual. I can’t find a lot of situations like mine around the interwebs. I hope that some of this behavior changes once she’s spayed. My vet’s office won’t usually do it until they are 6 months, but I got them to agree to do it around 4-5 months. It’s just that she’s still so tiny right now. I would like to wait until she’s a little bigger before putting her under. She’s the right weight, but there were some 8 weeks old kittens at the vet that looked her exact size (perhaps slightly bigger, but they could have just been fluffy).

    They are almost always displaying this behavior in the wee hours just before I get up to feed them, and an hour or so before bedtime well after they’ve eaten. It seems to be worse during the weekdays. Maybe because I keep them separated all day and he’s been waiting for his chance to go after her.

    I’m honestly shocked his behavior hasn’t permanently traumatized her. I give too little credit to her. She’s a real tough cookie.

    #835237
    Kittyzee
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    They certainly keep life interesting, don’t they? 😉

    #835242
    Megan Boudreaux
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    Oh yes that’s a word for it. 😆

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