Should I get another kitty?

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  • #12479
    ilove4kitties
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    Hi all,

    I was really thinking about getting another kitten, but here is my dilemma…I have 4 adult cats. I have read in a lot of places that balance of cats in the home is important. I have also read (but don’t know if it is true) that an even number of cats is better to have than an odd number because cats usually “pair” with each other…sounds a little weird to me.

    What do you think?

    #98555
    NorthernLilly
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    I agree with brandilee … take 2

    You can never have too many kitties hehee

    #98556

    2 more sounds good to me! I love kittens!

    #98557
    Crazycatman – CA
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    I have 5..does not seem to be a problem having an odd number, but hey if you’re getting 1 why not 2?

    #98558

    CCM, I think that you need 3 more to make it even!

    #98559
    KYKAT 12 23
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    I would really consider how getting another younger cat will affect your adults. How do they react when other animals come up on the porch or can be seen through the windows? Are they curious or do they go bezerk? I think if everyone seems to be happy and stable, I would stick with things as they are.

    #98560
    Cats4cats
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    I have three cats, and they seem fine with the odd number. But that may be because they consider me one of them!

    #98561
    LadyKat of IA
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    It also depends on the age of your other cats whether they would want another kitten or two around. (I do think that adding 2 kittens would be better than one when introducing kittens to older cats.) Older cats don’t seem to take well to having a kitten around unless their dispositions are easy-going and relaxed. I agree with ppearson that introducing a kitten to an older group could cause their dispositions to change if there is harmony within the group.

    #98562
    ailuromaniac
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    Also how you introduce a new member to the community is important.

    When you adopt, whether 1 or 2 kittens, try to have someone else bring them into the home. Then ignore the kittens (hard, I know) and lavish attention on the established cats. Tell them how great they are to agree to mentor the newcomers into being Cat People.

    If you choose more cat oriented babes (weakly socialized ferals), they will be less likely to try to demand your attention and be a lesser threat to the adults. After they bond with the adults, the adults will bring them into bonding with you.

    #98563
    Crazycatman – CA
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    o sure TBM..i need 3 more! 🙂

    #98564
    anncetera2
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    Aluromaniac has great wisdom in her words. I especially agree that if you add a young or energetic feline to the works, add two.

    And I have a litter of foster kittens who will be ready to adopt in mid-Dec at 13 weeks of age. I also have two young cats (6 months old), sisters who started out life feral. They’re very strongly bonded to one another, play with one another a lot (pestering the other cats less), and are warming up to me nicely. If I had to choose two cats to go with, in order of preference, it would be the two sisters, or two of the siblings from the foster kitten litter.

    If you decided to add one more cat, it would be best to go with an easygoing, laid back cat, which is more likely to be an adult than a kitten.

    One other trick to introducing another cat is, right before the other cat gets brought into the house, rearrange the furniture. (It breaks up territorial boundaries a bit.) Believe it or not, this trick of rearranging the furnishings to change up territory also works in fish tanks or aquariums (by moving around rocks, wood, or plants).

    #98565

    I used to have 3 cats–one older female and 2 younger males–the males were full brothers but from litters 5 months apart (full breed Balinese which I adopted, didn’t pay for). The boys would always double-team poor Susie–they would chase her so she would run under the sofa, then they would each take one end of the sofa to trap her! Little stinkers!

    #98566
    AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew
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    If you do decide on one cat, you might want to consider getting the opposite sex. Seems like there is less competition that way.

    #98567
    CSBM
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    2 kittens are better than one, because they will socialize with each other more than socialize with the adults , and will leave the adults basically to themselves…

    #98568
    ilove4kitties
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    Wow, thanks for all of the advice. The only problem I see with my established family is the female, Miss Kitty. She already has issues with her 3 brothers ganging up on her,and she gets really nervous; spitting and hissing at them. I think they are just trying to play with her, but she will not have it. The 3 males are okay with each other, though. So I thought maybe Miss Kitty would enjoy having another female…or maybe it would make things worse.

    #98569
    ailuromaniac
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    Miss Kitty needs a girls club! Two little girls she could mother and befriend would balance things out.

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