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    Krystal
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    Sorry this is such a long post, I’m just curious about my new kitten and his odd behavior…

    I’ve had several kittens before, but either they were all very far from the norm, or this one is. I just purchased him from a store a couple days ago, and have named him Salem. I took him to the vet today just for a check up (first visit comes free with the cat so I figured I may as well), and they said he was about 9 weeks old and perfectly healthy. I’ve noticed several things different with this kitten than any others I’ve had. One is a health issue I’m slightly worried about, the others are just behavior patterns I’m curious about. (I’m so over-bearing and paranoid about my new kitten, I certainly hope this isn’t any indication of the type of parent I will be when I have real children, they’re going to hate me lol)

    1) He doesn’t eat as much as other kittens I’ve had in the past. The one thing that always amazed me was how much they could eat in a day. He seems healthy, and the vet today said he was fine. I’m sure the lack of interest in food is probably due to the new home, right? Tonight he was curled up next to me in bed while I was surfing the internet, and all of a sudden he jumped up quickly, made a run for the bathroom, and threw up all over the floor. I think he may have been trying to get to his litter box in there, but didn’t make it in time. There’s no hair in the vomit, just clear liquid and food. Immediately after throwing up he came straight to me, coughed a couple times, and laid back down in bed. I gave him a little food a couple hours later, and he ate it and has kept it down. Is he OK? Do kittens throw up occasionally for no reason at all?

    2) This isn’t a problem really, just peaks my curiosity. The reason I opted for a cat rather than a dog is because I have a rather hectic schedule and wanted to be able to leave my pet at home without worrying about it. But this kitten is the most clingy thing I’ve ever seen in my life! He cries the entire time I’m gone if I leave the house, follows me from room to room and freaks out if I leave while he’s asleep and he wakes up alone… He even follows me in the bathroom and cries in front of the door the entire time I’m in the shower until I come out again, even when he can see me. Why is he so attention-hungry? Right now I can indulge him, but I can’t stay home all the time forever… Should I try to wean him from me a bit, or give him the constant attention he seems to crave? (Even when we went to the vet today, he wouldn’t stop crying unless I held him. He was driving the doctors crazy, every time I set him on the table he kept whining and trying to climb back in my arms. Its adorable, and I absolutely love how quickly he bonded to me. I can give him that attention now, but eventually I’m gonna need to get back to my normal schedule.)

    3) He loves one-on-one cuddle time, and will lay with me for hours just purring and rubbing on me. But for some reason he’s always trying to touch my face. He just sets his paws on my cheeks or eyes, and seems to get annoyed if I move them. Why does he do that? Again not a problem, its just so… odd. He usually does it when I’m rubbing his face or chin… Is he intelligent enough to be mimicking me? Or does he just have some fascination with my face for some reason?

    4) Why has no one ever mentioned the whole waking-up-early issue that comes with new kittens (haha)? Every morning he starts pouncing on me, biting my ears, lifting my hands with his head… he’ll go for hours if I don’t get up. And it’s not for food or anything, he had fresh food, water, 42739876 toys, access to his liter bin, but when I got back in bed he kept trying to get me up again. Is there any way to re-adjust his internal clock to a bit later than 7:00am, or do I just need to change my sleeping habits to fit his better?

    I know I’m asking a lot of questions, but I want everything to be perfect for my new kitten. He’s insanely playful, loves to cuddle, purrs all the time… I just don’t understand him! Hehe.

    <3 Krys

    PS Thanks in advance for any answers or advice you can give me.

    #204953
    AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew
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    first thing, welcome to the TDK family and congrats on the new kit!

    1) Are you feeding him the same food(s) that were being fed prior? If not, it could be the new food is not agreeing with him. He is a baby still and his stomach is still sensitive, plus its a new situation.

    2) Might try getting another kitten about the same age, they will keep each other company. Also kittens are like people, some just crave human closeness, kids do the same thing.

    3) see # 2, he is a cuddler, you have to remember that kittens/cats are all individuals and have different personnalities.

    4) They are naturally nocturnal by centuries of habit, I have 5 cats and the raceway @ my house usually starts between 2-4 a.m. and then when I do get up and feed them, they go back to sleep. Try playing with your baby to get him tired before you go to sleep and/or feed him just enough to keep his little tummy from waking him up being hungry.

    #204954
    SammyandOliversmama
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    Welcome to the TDKers, Krystal. Congrats on the kitty. AZ Deb said it well. You have one thing to be thankful for tho, he doesn’t get u up until 7:00 am????? We have two and they are screaming anywhere from 4-6 am. I am sure your kitty will be fine.

    #204955
    kittymom
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    First, Congrats on your new kitty. Re: the following you around and being “clingy”, was he with other kitties when you got him? Could be he’s just looking for the ‘constant’ company he had with his sibs. Deb has covered everything well, I second her suggestion/question about the possibility of getting anotther kitty about the same age to keep this one company – might really help with the “clingy” behavior. And, if you’ll be leaving him alone alot because of your schedule, some kitties like the company of another. Have fun with him!!

    #204956
    cricketsmama
    Participant

    Hi Krystal, welcome to TDK..

    Try getting him a few beanie babies for him to attach to, something with your smell on it will help too. He might be missing his mommy so make him some comfy stuff for him. I am running out the door but I wanted to say hi at least. I wish I could help more. I am sure the others will have valuble info. ๐Ÿ™‚

    #204957
    Krystal
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    Thanks for all the advice guys. As far as getting another kitten, we have 3 other cats here (and I have 6 roommates)so he’s rarely every alone, but still cries if I’m not there. Two of the other cats (along with their owner) are moving out in a couple weeks, so hopefully he attaches to the other one soon.

    As far as the throwing up, he did again this morning. He hadn’t eaten anything yet and it was just clear liquid, nothing else, so I don’t think its the food. I called the vet and they want to test him for parasites. I needed to have that test done in a couple weeks anyways when he got his next round of shots, so I figured i may as well do that today and rest easier knowing he saw a doctor.

    Oh, and we only JUST woke up. He let me sleep until 9:45 this morning. We went to bed around 2:00am. Over-sleeping a symptom of being sick, or I just got lucky…? Usually he doesn’t sleep for more than 2 hours at a

    #204958
    Krystal
    Participant

    (Salem just jumped on the keyboard trying to get my attention and clicked enter lol, I’ll finish here….)

    Usually he doesn’t sleep for more than 2 hours at a time, even at night. When he got up this morning he didn’t try to get me up, just immediately ran to the bathroom, started whining a lot, then threw up.

    Wish us luck at the vet, I’ll let you guys know what they say.

    <3 Krys

    #204959
    cricketsmama
    Participant

    Let us know Krystal how Salem did at the vet. Hopefully he just has a minor bug that that be taken care of. Poor little guy. He might have worms or something…Just let us know. ๐Ÿ™‚

    #204960
    feral
    Participant

    Welcome to TDK Krystal…sounds like Salem has a wonderful & thoughtful new mommie.

    #204961
    2 Popoki
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    welcome… and you’ve been given lots of good information. Good luck at the vet, and do keep us posted! i’m running out, too, so will check back later.

    #204962

    Welcome to the Daily Kitten, Krystal. Your new kitten sounds adorable! Some kittens need more attention than others, especially when they are getting used to a new place and new people. Your kitten may well be missing his mother and littermates.

    I have two cats that I’ve raised from about ten weeks old. They were weaned but still liked to knead on me the way they do their mothers when they are nursing. One of them still likes to gently touch my face with her paw in the morning when she wants to be petted. When a kitten puts its head under your hand or gives you a bonk with its head, it wants you to pet it. I think the stroking of petting feels similar to being licked/bathed by a mama cat. He is asking you to comfort him.

    Enjoy your new baby!

    #204963
    Tigerlilly
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    Welcome! Salem sounds adorable. After reading all the posts, I don’t have much to add. My first thought was whether this was a diet change for him, if not, definitely a vet visit is in order. Please keep us posted. Hope all goes well.

    #204964
    kittymom
    Participant

    Krystal, how did it go at the vet?

    #204965
    anncetera2
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    Krystal, I’d ask your vet about the vomiting. It could just be nerves or a sensitive stomach, but it could also be that a change in diet is needed. Talk with your vet about the ingredients in the cat food you’re currently using. Also, please make sure he’s not nibbling on anything else in the house that might be harmful; many houseplants and household cleaners are poisonous to pets.

    The constant attention-seeking is fairly normal. After all, this kitten was surrounded by Mom and littermates until you took him home. He may need more physical contact and playtime to help make up for the lack he’s now experiencing. And he may just be a mama’s boy, in which case his greater need for attention will be a lifelong trait, not just a transition.

    You could try adopting another kitten as a playmate for him. If not, though, please try to make time for two 15-minute play sessions with him, every morning and every evening. He will definitely benefit from the extra attention; it will reduce any anxiety he may be feeling, and it will give him extra sensory stimulation and play-hunting activity.

    #204966
    anncetera2
    Participant

    Oh, and his pushing up your hand with his head? He’s trying to get you to pet him. (I’d go ahead and pet him; it can be an endearing trait.)

    #204967
    Karenopa
    Participant

    Awwwwwwww..Little Salem has been through alot. Going from Mom and all the sibblings, to the store and now to your home. He’s just little, and scared of what’s next. I think once he recognizes some routine in your home he may relax a bit. Meantime…he needs a little reassurance from you that he’s safe. Anncetera is right to watch out for items around the house that Salem may be getting into and not every kitty food is right for every kitty. Sometimes I shake my head with my 4 and wonder if I’m not more of a detective than a caregiver….and honestly when we love our pets we’re all a bit of both. A companion for him would be a wonderful thing thru all his growing years. I have 4 sibblings (I know..it’s a bit much…I just couldn’t pick who’d go..so they all stayed) and they just aren’t that much trouble..They play or ignore each other and all find their little nooks and crannies to sleep and dream. Good luck with Salem and please keep us posted on his progress.

    #204968
    MadcatwomanintheUK
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    Hi krystal, wlecome to TDK, hope the advise you’ve received has helped, and that salem continues to settle in. Let us know how you get on at the vets.

    #204969

    Good advice already given, but just wanted to say welcome and I have found boy kittens seem more needy than the girls, but every one is different. My Sheba follows me around everywhere, got her when she was 3 years old.

    #204970
    Krystal
    Participant

    Thanks again for all the advice guys, really helpful ๐Ÿ™‚

    Well, the vet visit was interesting. The doctor could barely pull Salem away from me, he kept digging his claws into my shirt and screaming every time they had to take him to the back. Cute, but really sad too. He was terrified! They ran a few tests and found out he has coccidia, a parasite. They said it was lucky I brought him in so early, so he should be fine within a few days. They said he’s probably feeling worse than he acts, so that could be why he’s so overly-clingy. He’s also not eating as much as he should be, and is a bit dehydrated, so that’s why he was over-sleeping so much. They also agreed that for him to be showing signs this early means it was a pre-existing problem, so the pet store covered the medical bill. He’s on medication for the next 10 days, but they said he should be acting and feeling fine within the next 2-3 days. Also, I went back to the pet store and bought the food he was getting there, as per all of your advice about switching foods messing with his tummy. He seems to like that food much better, so I hope that helps to get him eating a good amount again.

    I’m supposed to give him .75ml of this liquid medicine every day. When I tried tonight, it took 30 minutes and a lot of screaming and struggling to get it in him. I tried all sorts of things, but unfortunately the only way I could get him to take it was to force it in his mouth when he was crying at me. I felt terrible, and he was mad at me for the next 45 minutes. He kept turning away from me every time I tried to pet him. Not running away, so not fear, just really angry. He’s back cuddling me now (in fact he’s making typing this hard lol, keeps sitting on the keyboard to get my attention), but are we going to have to go through this every night for the next 10 days, or is there some kind of secret to getting the medicine in him? He still isn’t eating or drinking quite normally yet, so I’m afraid to waste it by putting it in his food or water. Do I just have to suck it up and let him be mad at me for a while? I’d rather him be mad and healthy than sick, but I hated putting him through that.

    Thanks a lot again ๐Ÿ™‚

    By the way apparently he loves water… not relevant to anything, I just thought it was adorable. He’s soaking wet and LOVES playing in the sink. Makes cleaning him easier lol.

    #204971

    I’m so glad you took your baby to the vet. Getting rid of the parasites will improve his health so he can put on weight. I’ve never had to give a cat liquid medicine, but here is a website that describes how to do it: http://cats.about.com/cs/catmanagement101/ht/giveliquidmeds.htm

    It is important not to squirt the fluid in his mouth so forcefully that it is aspirated into his lungs. He sure has bonded with you, hasn’t he? ๐Ÿ˜€

    He sounds like a little sweetheart! Enjoy him!

    By the way–yes, it’s OK if he is mad at you when you give him his medicine. He must have it as the vet ordered. You can see how quickly he will forgive you. ๐Ÿ™‚

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