Oh that’s what she’s doing when she’s squinting! I had no idea, I’d just seen cats do it before so I thought it was normal. Good, I’ll do the squint thing.
So far we’ve spent many hours (roughly 5) playing with them throughout the day. I’ve introduced both to some friends, all of whom have been very calm when meeting her, so hopefully that was okay. Also we took them out of the “harry potter closet” to play around in the hallway and bathroom of our house (closed off all the other doors). The boy is definitely a play guy. He immediately bounced out of the closet and started playing with everything from his shadow to his tail to the little puffs of dust on the ground. His name is Zeus, by the way, and hers is Athena. His name fits pretty well, personality wise. Zeus thinks he’s the bomb.
Athena, amazingly, stuck her head out of this little box she was hiding in and watched us (my boyfriend and I) while we watched Zeus playing. We took her out of the box and let her wander around, which she did without running away in fear (yaaay) but Zeus was a little to active and playful for her because after he tried to get her to play multiple times, she just hid behind the toilet. So we took Zeus away, put him back in the closet and let Athena wander on her own. She went to one side of the hall way and was very inquisitive (I talked to her all the while) and then when we decided to let Zeus back out we separated them on different sides of the hallway and SHE walked past my boyfriend and I calmly and decided to change sides to go with Zeus on her own! But then, after a little bit of play fighting, they both went behind the toilet to sit, so we called it a day for them. :]
So there’s the update and I have high hopes. Thanks for all the advice, I really appreciate it!