HEY KARIN

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  • #11575
    kathyanne11/13
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    WAS TODAY THE BIG MEETING WITH HUBBY HOW DID IT GO DID YOU GET THE SUDIO YOU WERE LOOKING AT

    #69810
    LadyValkyrie
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    yes karin let us know how it’s going?

    Haved missed you lately.

    Ange

    #69811
    Sylmiafelixsmama
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    The meeting is today at 4pm. Hopefully can work it all out. Have seen several apts but nothing worth renting as of yet. Hoping to find something by next weekend. I am okay.

    #69812
    Sylmiafelixsmama
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    The meeting is today at 4pm. Hopefully can work it all out. Have seen several apts but nothing worth renting as of yet. The studio was in an old house that was built in 1898. It was way too small and too old. Only the carpet, and stove were new but the rest of it was too old. I received an email about a 1 bedrm place. Unfortunately it is further inland than I want but am going to check it out tonight just to keep all of my options open. There is another place that I was told that a unit has opened up sooner than expected and that I may be able to view it next Sat. Hope to be able to move by Oct 20th. Hoping to find something soon.

    #69813
    MadcatwomanintheUK
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    Good luck Karin xx

    #69814

    Good luck, sweetie. keep us posted.

    #69815
    AZDEBRA 5/27 & crew
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    Karin, you are in our thoughts and prayers >^..^<

    #69816
    miu
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    Good Luck, Karin! xox

    #69817
    Teresa
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    You are in our thoughts and purrayers this afternoon Karin. You go girl!

    #69818

    All the very best!

    #69819
    AnnF
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    Thinking of you and wishing you the best.

    #69820
    Rubia in CA, 4/28
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    Hi Karen – it is 12:40 AM here, so you must either be in your meeeting with your husband right now, or it is alread over. I hope it went well, and that you were able to get some things settled. Sending you lots of positive energy and good thoughts and wish you the best of luck in finding the right apartment!

    {{HUGS}}

    #69821
    gatakitty
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    Karin–the meeting started nearly 2 1/2 hours ago–what’s going on? I’m beginning to worry. Listen to your gut; if it says “bolt,” BOLT!

    Keep in touch, sister.

    #69822
    Sylmiafelixsmama
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    Hi all, the meeting went okay but I am feeling like it was a waste of time. We discussed several issues including the threat and have discussed his moving to a friend’s place till I find my own place. He basically said there was no rush for me to find a new place as he didn’t want to put any more pressure on our situation. We are suppose to meet again to setup a financial agreement to help out with my moving and living expenses. We will see how it goes. In the meantime, I have seen several places but none that I want to move into. I went and saw a place inland but it is too small and too warm to live in. I am definitely not interested. So I wait till Wed/Thur to hear if I can view that other unit on next Sat. Here is hoping I find something soon.

    #69823
    2 Popoki
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    Good to see you post.. lets us know you are OK. Sounds like he is being reasonable.. for the moment. Continued prayers

    #69824
    AnnF
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    Sounds like it could have been better but it also could have been worse. At least things are in motion and you aren’t under immediate pressure to move out in the next day or two.

    Can you set up some safety devices in the meantime?

    #69825
    Sylmiafelixsmama
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    Second meeting on Tuesday as I mentioned. If that goes better than Sunday’s, then we won’t need to do anything else. If it doesn’t go well, will proceed with checking into changing the locks.

    Interview today was a waste of time. Large company trying to break into a different part of the financial business and they want an admin who can run the office and help six bankers with all their administrative requirements. Am told there may be long hours involved and I can say I am not too keen on this position.

    So here is hoping that the large engineering firm where the Sr Admin position supports two VP’s or Apple extend a job offer within the next two weeks. I will still keep searching.

    In the meantime, I will continue to job and apartment search.

    #69826
    Boyzandme
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    Hey karin, Sorry that didn’t pan out well for you. But I will keep my fingers crossed. Oh and the offer still stands if you ever want to come to Albuquerque, your very much welcome!

    #69827
    Sylmiafelixsmama
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    Major set back with husband. He is threatening to take me to court now and on top of trying to find a new place to live, I had this added stress. Also, checked into changing the locks and was told not to do this since both of our names are on the lease. Also, to obtain a restraining order, I have to have proof of his threatening me. On top of this, so call mutual friend says he is on my side but sounds like he is trying to talk me out of protecting myself for the benefit of my husband. I was crying a lot yesterday and am feeling very much at a loss here of what to do. Parents unwilling to help. Will try to find emergency housing or someone who can help.

    #69828

    Karin, you’re in CA, right? You might want to check again on the TRO (restraining order). From what *I* know, CA is one of the most progressive states regarding domestic abuse. Let me know if I can help in any way. Love Ter

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