Help me with kitten behavior!

Buttons gave you very good advice, and you may be able to have him neutered before 5 months especially if he is at least 2 pounds. But the first thing to do is a trip to the vet.
The real problem here is that your breeder (if that’s what you want to call this person 🙄 ) did not socialize these kittens/cat at all. From the minute they are born, they need to be handled, cuddled and loved on which is what makes them so very loving and tame. It will just take patience and time for your kitten to learn about you, to trust you and realize that he has a wonderful loving home. No yelling, hitting, sudden movements that might frighten him. Just reinforce to him that you love him and are there for him. Get him some toys (wand toys are great and he won’t be going for your hands and feet and legs), kicker toys and a laser pointer that he can chase. Once he is tired out from playing, feed him in a quiet spot away from foot traffic, talk to him and see if he will let you pet him while eating. Then he will groom himself and probably sleep. He will find his way to you in the night for comfort and snuggling, but the breeder did him no favors by isolating him–as it’s almost as if he is a feral cat.

Stephanie? First? I’m really sorry for the landlords giving you rough conditions and your kittens brutal start in life but? You’ll give him a happy healthy life. My little one has some biting issues as well. If you don’t have stuffed animals I’d get a few. Redirect. As for cla we out? They’re little so there’s no chance of you being seriously harmed but conditioning away from clawing is done with love and? If you have to? Go online and find kitty caps. They’re cheap. I too was worried about mines choice of where to sleep. First it was the rolling suitcase then he’d come to bed. Then the…yikes! Kitchen floor of all places but? Living in an apt and having a disability I need my body at room temp at all times so….sometimes it’s just cooler in there. He shows no sign of worms and you can look up what those are. If yours shows signs they have deworming stuff at the market or if you can afford Petco etc. Ear mites are something to watch for and if you clean his ears every day he won’t get any. Living in an apt I would suggest keeping him indoors especially after the brutal start in life. Play is important and so is trust. You keep a routine and familiarize him with it and keep him on one you’ll both be okay. At 4 months start brushing teeth. If the cat stuffs too expensive use your finger and rub a tiny bit of Colgate on his teeth and then cold water to rinse so he doesn’t swallow any. Yes scared. That’s all and he needs time. Hell be okay with sleep if you can acclimate him and find favorite foods. Wet and dry. We eat Friskiest. The indoor dry is fabulous for kittens. I’m not sure what breed you have but beware of anything with rice in it. It might tank his taurine. I can ask mine but most people aren’t psychic to consult the tarot so if you have any breed of Siamese or tonkinese I’d steer clear of most anything with rice. Especially dry. Wet down adult dry so he can eat it. Yuri wanted that at first but Friskiest indoor is small pieces so he doesn’t need it anymore. We just switched. ???? Sign of health is grooming. Glad you’ve got the litter box down and make sure you clean it every day. Make sure he has fresh water everyday too. You’re his mommy and he depends upon you. Set limits and be firm. Get a spray bottle. It works to deter biting. I don’t need to use it with Yuri anymore but whined a t him when I had to. He got the message. Hope this helps.

Awww Stephanie, it will be all right. He just needs time, and once he is neutered, he will calm down A LOT!! Don’t lose heart, it just takes time and he will be the happiest cat in spite of his first few months!