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  • #839905
    JerseyJoan
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    We have a few new friends here in TDK land who are grieving. Everyone here has felt this loss, and understand what you are going through.
    Take all the time you need to grieve. It is not ‘just a cat’. You don’t just ‘get over it’. Everyone, from the young person who has experienced a first loss, to someone having been through it before, feels the profound sadness, guilt and grief. It will ease. It must ease, for life does indeed go on. Your precious baby has taken a piece of your heart, and that hurts!
    I’m hoping that this thread may serve as a refuge to turn to for help and support and healing. Share stories. Ask questions. Know that this is a safe haven.

    #839906
    JerseyJoan
    Moderator

    Shaddo and Jiggs, TDKr’s know you better than any of the cats I’ve ever had, except for the current generation, of course.
    When I lost you five months apart from each other, my life changed forever. Jiggs, you were the first cat I had to make that gut wrenching decision for, to let you go, to not be selfish in prolonging your pain, on that frigid day. Shaddo, on that sweltering June day, I wanted more time with you. Just one more day, one more moment, but it was time to say goodbye.
    Now you run and play and once in a while I know you stop and go to the place at the Meadow where there is a view of everything. From there you can sense me, and you know I will be there for you, a lifetime for me, but the blink of an eye for you.
    Carry on. Play those butterfly chasing games, try to catch those fish in the brook that know you will never catch them! Splash in the water but never feel cold and wet. Bask in the sunshine. Treasure that piece of my heart you carry with you, just as I carry a part of you in mine.
    The next generation lives with me now. The human heart is fragile, but also resilient. It allows an infinite amount of love, and I’ve opened my heart. I know my heart will be broken again, but the love I carry in my heart gently covers the pain, leaving just enough room for remembrance of each special life.
    Be good, boys, I’m watching you!

    #839907
    katzenjammer
    Participant

    “My new kitten is hiding under the radiator! What do I do now?” Words of sheer panic when I brought my newly adopted kitty Nicky home some years ago. We got through the start-up part and you were by my side through times that were hard and times that were less so, my tuxie boy, and in the 12 or so years that we were companions you taught me how to love. On a sad never-to-be-forgotten Thursday you started making breathing sounds that had me shrieking and saw me taking you to the vet who transferred you to the emergency vet’s. The next 2 days were a horror. Will never know exactly what suddenly went wrong, but after 2 wretched days, on Sunday I had to make the dreaded decision to let you go. I stroked your soft black and white fur and quoted Hamlet” “Goodnight sweet prince, and flights of angels sing thee to thy rest.” I wept, as did the tech and vet who’d “seen it all.” Then I kissed your sweet face one last time. You were out of pain, mine was only starting. Never again I said. Then Dorry came into a heart that had room for another kitty. He is not and never will be you. You are irreplaceable. But he is love on four furry feet and I know that you would not want me to be alone. Play well Nicky boy!
    http://i1347.photobucket.com/albums/p711/katzjpickz/73588a54-c253-48b4-9c71-da958510d965_zps39433fa6.jpg

    #839910
    Kittyzee
    Participant

    I can’t read this today–I will read it soon. I lost my beloved Katherine today, someone hit her right in front of our house this morning. She was Willow’s mom, and only 2 years old. What a timely topic Joan, I love you for it. My heart is broken, like it’s been broken over and over again so many times before. I know I will heal, but for now, I just can’t. She was my bright spot outside, her happy shenanigans made me smile and her quest for finding chipmunks and mice to play with. Just last week she brought a mouse to the food bowl, but had to open her mouth for her food letting her mouse make a run for it. Which it did, so she proceeded to have breakfast anyway knowing there were many more mice for her entertainment out in the pasture. I miss you darling girl. I love you.

    #839911
    katzenjammer
    Participant

    So very, very sorry KZ. RIP in the Meadow lovely lady Katherine.

    #839912
    Anonymous
    Inactive

    Over time, I have lost my fur balls but they always made sure I had enough room in my heart to love another. I thank them for teaching how to love again. That’s all I can say now.

    I’m sorry Miss Katherine is gone but, even if it was too soon for you, she is romping in the Meadow. 😥

    #839922
    CatWScotia
    Participant

    There were cats and dogs and a tortoise and a budgie and hamsters and a white mouse when I was a child, all of course long gone now.

    Since marriage there have been budgies and cockatiels and cockatoos and parrots and macaws and finches and tropical fish and gerbils and hamsters and a tarantula . . . but three dogs and eight cats have been the most loved, and have loved us in return.

    Now that we’re older, cat number eight, Merlin, will probably be our last, and so it is possible that he is the most spoiled, as well as the cuddliest, happiest of all our pets. So many have gone before – the most recent being my beautiful white cat, Rincewind, whose passing is still fresh in my heart, many months later.

    I wouldn’t have been without any of them (with the possible exception of the tarantula) but the pain of losing them can be overwhelming.

    Would I choose to avoid the losses by not having pets in the first place, if I had the chance? Not a bit! To be loved and trusted by another warm, living creature is a special privilege, and I am so thankful to have known every one of them.

    #839924
    CatWScotia
    Participant

    I am so sorry to hear of KZ’s sudden loss today. My heart goes out to you – it’s hard to know what to say, because nothing anyone could say would ease the pain.

    Some years ago my OH was just going to work one morning when a car came too fast along our street, and hit the lovely next-door cat. She was beautiful, friendly, always ready for a few words and a cuddle. But in moments she was gone, and I still think of her and miss her greeting.

    Cats bring so much love and joy to us during their lives with us. They are special.

    #839927
    Jeankit
    Participant

    Oh my, sending my condolences out to KZ on passing of Katherine today.
    cat sympathy card
    May special memories comfort you in the days ahead.

    Sigh, sometimes our furry/purries are called to the Meadow too soon…

    #839936
    Jeankit
    Participant

    Since childhood I was fortunate to have pets, mostly kits plus bro.’s dog as part of my life.
    (Kot, Winkie, Blackie, Sushi, Dot with Sis kits Snuffy, Emily Z, Rick’s sheltie Rusty, plus the ferals/strays that shared time with us too!)
    Yes, they have passed to the Meadow by the Bridge.
    Some have been blessed with joining loved ones in the Realm by now too!

    Acknowledging this we are comforted to say
    ’til we meet again!

    So I will take liberty to say our furry family members are welcoming Katherine today in the Meadow…
    “Until we meet again”! 🙂

    #839938
    catsgomeow
    Participant

    I am sorry to hear about Katherine, the most important things is that she had a loving and friendly home while she was with you, her memories will keep her alive evermore…

    #839955
    Moonshadow_NZ
    Moderator

    Beautiful JJ, absolutely beautiful. 😥
    For Nicky and Monty from my childhood and Whitefoots & sister Wild, Smudge the abandoned steak stealing cat and Whitefoots sons Nicky II and Monty II, and Sharp who we adopted when his family moved countries, all wonderful cats. Also my very first dog Duff my own little guardian and the many other working dogs and Blaze and Lady our horses.
    Never forgotten because they made us who we are now.
    KZ I’m so sorry about Katherine, she sounds absolutely delightful and cheeky. {{hugs}} That is how our Nicky II left this world too.

    #839963
    Kittyzee
    Participant

    You’ll never know the comfort all of you have given me today, your shared stories and kind words and thoughts. I have a list of beloved pets and MS you are so right about them never being forgotten and they DID make us who we are now. My cats have taught me more about love and compassion than any person ever has. And this is the only place where people understand how it feels to lose a beloved, and grieves along with you.

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