Fed up with husband

Things seemed to be going so well but am Sorry to say that hubby and I had a really nasty fight. He told me to F*** Off last night. He has never used foul language at me last night. I was tired and not feeling like doing the dishes and had told him that on Tuesday night. He said okay. Last night when I got home I still did not feel like doing the dishes and even more so since it was 85 degrees in my area yesterday. Well, he comes home, no pleasantries but instead is rude to me. I tell him that it is too hot and I am tired and not feeling like doing the dishes. He gets mad and says he cooked and I should clean and all. I said I am sorry but I do not feel like doing it right now. He said well, he needed to cook and all. Anyways, so he is doing the dishes and banging things around so much that I thought something would break. I told him this and how he doesn’t respect my things. I said how I wasn’t given these things, that I worked hard to pay for them and because he didn’t pay for them, he didn’t care. At that point he told me f*** off. I said if you are saying that to me then I am saying back at you. I said he was a jerk and walked away. We haven’t spoken since. I don’t know if I can last these next three months (giving it till January). I need to find at least $1800-2400 to move and another $600 to divorce him. I am trying to win the lottery but it isn’t working. I am so frustrated.

Sorry all. I need some hugs and comforting this morning.

Well, he just seems to get angry at me a lot more than I think is necessary. Yes, he may be frustrated with his job search and his having to work as a chauffer but he doesn’t need to take it out on me. I have been trying to help him all along. I was the one who encouraged him to go for a limo driver position instead of doing the taxi job since that was all he could do with no office experience when we first got married. I was the one who encouraged him to go out and apply at temp agencies to take lower level jobs so that he could get his foot in the door. Did he go and sign up…no as he had a certain type of job in mind (one where he could work mostly from home and his own hours). For almost three years, money has been an issue for him and I except for three months when he had a decent job making as much money as I was making. Unfortunately a new CFO came in and laid off all the people in the finance dept.

Also, he has this attitude that when he wants me to do something, he wants it now but if I want something from him, I am not to even think of asking him.

I thought we were able to co-exist as things seemed to be going okay. We were both hot and tired last night and he didn’t want to try and work around the dishes. I know he is extra hungry and thirsty due to his fasting for his month long Ramadan (they fast from sunup to sundown for one month). Why is it I have to figure out what is wrong? Why can’t he just tell me and then work around the dishes? I would have come and cleaned up later on. I can’t take much more of this. Poor Sylvester. Thank God at least I have my furry friend who I believe loves me.