Fed up with husband

It is my sincere wish to stay on the good side of you ladies.

HEY, I didn’t sow the grass seeds, I just reported the event! LOL. Yeah some people it doesn’t pay to piss off. With my friends, when one of us has gotten hurt, (guys included too) we ususally get together with some beverages and swap all the revenge stories we have heard, send bad mojo thoughts to the offending person and move on. I NEVER want to get on HM’s bad side! (I’ll have to keep bringing her bacon)

Karin, Susie, One Popoki and Brandi Lee, I am not sure what the solutions are, but I am in your corner sending prayers that you find them and find the path back to happiness. Life is both too short and too long to be in daily emotional pain. It can and will get better.

Wow, we have some people here who take revenge seriously!! HM, remind me never to tick you off! Your ideas were ingenious! I loved each one and would have never thought of any of that! Good job! Susie, milk of magnesia! Brilliant. PPearson, grass on the carpet, would have loved to see that one! Good job!

To the rest of you girls, Karin ,One Popoki, Brandi Lee, Susie and anyone else out there dealing with a difficult relationship, I have no other advice to offer. Leave if you can, tolerate what you must, always keep your safety in mind. I wish you all the best in each of your situations. Keep talking. It will help you get through.

*Makes note, to order 10 cases of extra thick bacon, send ups red to HM and hire BBQ chef to cook it. Gotta kept the lady happy!* Hugs and Purrs.

There was a story going around once that a guy had left his wife and taken off with his girlfriend. He had left his very expensive car (don’t remember what it was, Mercedes or Jag or something like that) and told her to sell it and he’d come back for the money. She advertised the car for sale, for $1.00. It sold immediately, and when he came home, she handed him his $1.00. This was supposed to be a true story.

Wow maybe we shhould start a page for revengfe stories of roomies, and ex’s/

I could use that sort of advice. “The Manuel of Revenge” Follow manuel steps in order continually increase size of revenge event. I am so thinking of combining some of those. Ya know like heating high, soggy grass carpet,broken windows instead of open ones. Man I thought my sister and I are devous. I bow to you great ladies.

When my sister finally left her, cheating abusive man of 9 years, we had a field day or so I thought. We left cracked raw eggs, and fish in his car, we sewn into his back seat (mind you he had a van that he used the backseat as a bed for quickies). That love machine became a total breaker in the deal. LOL!

Oh I should also mention I am 9 years younger then my sister, and the first and only time I saw him hit her he ended up beaten to a pukp and knocked out cold by me (I was only 12 at the time and what you would call the shy quiet un-noticable type, shocked my sister and fam with that bit of aggression.)No one hurts my family and gets away with it.

As for all the ladies suffering difficult situations with a**es I say bare it will you can, make it your goal to get out as soon as possible and learn from this experience so you don’t relive it later down the line with another worthless partner. Everyone deserves, love, respect and a companion who cares about working out problems. When you commit you are no longer an individual you are a working unit.

You can make your time togther enjoyable and a true sharing as partners or a time of selfishness and unease. No partner should be allowed to ruin or drag their partners hopes, dreams and ideals of a loving relationship through the mud.

Unhappines breeds disconent

Happiness breeds, love, hope, trust and loyalty.

I thought with the list of good things in happiness all would fall in line, but sometimes you let the weight of stress, nervousness and anxiety weigh on you like a black shroud or an endlessly black abyss sucking happiness and live from everything around you just becuase you are hurting or miserable.

I have a few poems I think I will post that speak of times I almost gave up to the saddness and dispare I felt. They are not nessarily about partners but what the world can do to intrude and break us done piexe by piece until we are sucked into that hopelessness and no longer fight back.

Maybe they will help. Or maybe they will inspire the fight in you to return.

Ange

When I left my abusive hubby, I had a court order to sell our house and split the proceed….Now, my aunt was a real estate agent… So, I sold the house to her agency for.. READY FOR THIS

$1.00

and wrote him a check for $0.50

and then bought the house back from my aunt.

hahaha!!!

Wow. This makes me think of a new word I heard made up: REVENGENCE.

Works for me.

Karin, glad things got a little better after you talked. I hope you can have a few more good conversations and at least keep things on an even keel while you figure out what your next move is.

Karin, I am glad to hear that you have a plan. I know that when I finally decided to leave my now-ex, I made the decision to leave 5 or 6 months before I actually made the move so had all my “ducks in a row” as it were. Just as a side note, I am now involved in a relationship with a wonderful man–and he found me after I SWORE I would never have another relationship! Good thoughts too you!