Susie, it’s so sad but true that most of our animal companions don’t live nearly as long as we do, even if they enjoy perfect health and live to a ripe old age.
The only thing I find gives me comfort, sometimes, is knowing that our pets don’t anticipate dying. They live blissfully centered on the here and now of their daily lives. So it makes sense to me that what probably matters most to our cherished pets is the daily love, affection, and care we give them. As long as they have that, nothing else really matters.
We cannot control how long they get to share our lives, beyond a certain point. You do the very best you can for them, and nobody has any right to expect or ask anything more of you.
I love my cats while I have them, and cherish the warm memories after they’re gone. It’s so terribly hard to lose them, especially the ones that have carved out an especially large place in my heart! But no matter how much I love them, I can’t keep death from coming for them. All I might be able to do is delay that inevitable day from arriving.
Dear, sweet Susie, you’ve done so very much for your beloved kitties! I hope it’s not Cowboy’s time, but I know you’ve given him every measure of love, care, and attention that you could. Don’t ever doubt for a minute that Cowboy doesn’t appreciate such beneficial acts of kindness. He does, and if he could thank you with words, he would.
I strongly hope he pulls through this rough patch, and that you get to enjoy many more years with his unique, loving purrsonality.